Today my dad asked if it is nessassary to ask some one to be your bf or gf if you want her or he to be your bf or gf. Yea lor. Why must ask? Not like both of them are getting married also. He said if both of you like each other why need to ask? isn’t it like understood?

Well, maybe because now we have more choices so it is so normal to go out with few people at the same time so better confirm with one another than assuming right? I also don’t know because i am just a stupid girl.

Then he said, " I mean when you like her and she likes you, then both will hold hands, BF and GF alreadly lor, no need to put it in words ma."

But the thing is, we don’t go simply hold some ones hand if they are not your Bf or Gf right? Then papa say no la. It’s normal to hold your friend hands. Then i ask " You hold your friend hands last time although she wasn’t your GF?" then he said yeap. I think he was lying. Then he told me to hold one of my guy friends hand tomorrow and see his reaction.

I think it will go something like this * Hold his hand, pretend like i don’t even realise i am holding his hand* Boy ask," What are you doing? Char replied, " Well, can’t you see, I’m holding your hand. "
Then boy asked, " Why are you holding my hand? " Then char said, "Because it’s nice and warm." Then boy said " I see. " and i ask "Do you like it?" and he replied " It’s ok." then i smile.