Jan
01
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by lengluichar on 01-01-2007
I always wonder why many teenagers around my age like to celebrate BIG EVENTS such as their birthday, new year, Christmas and many more with their friends instead of their parents and family members.
I am close to my family and I celebrate these events with them and I do not have any complains what so ever. I feel very content celebrating these events with them and if I don’t celebrate it with them, i will feel terrible.
Some of you will say celebrating with friends are funner and better because they know how to rock and make life wonderful and interesting. But to me it’s not as meaningful as celebrating it with my family because I feel lucky to have a family and I really appreciate them. I have friends and i appreciate them too but I can always find friends and all i need is just to be friendly and I’ll get tons of them just in one night. But not for family members. They are like oxygen. You don’t feel their presence and instead we like to do things the opposite way like smoking. But when there is no oxygen, we will suffocate and die. Before we die, we realized that we need oxygen to survive but there are not many second chances in life. We take family members for granted.
I try not to take my family members for granted. When i need help, I will first ask my parents for help then only my friends and usually they are the one who gives the best advice because they ate more salt than we eat rice in our life as in they are more experienced people.
Some of you will say that I am close to my family that is why it’s easy for me to tell them my problems. Actually you are wrong. I was once not close to them but still i asked for their help and they helped me of course. It takes two clap so maybe you should be the one who should change and make a difference.
Jan
01
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by lengluichar on 01-01-2007
I do not agree that a child is like a white piece a cloth and their parent or guardians are the one who create patterns on it. I believe that a child is not like a white piece of cloth only but a white piece of cloth with a pattern drawn by pencil. It is the parents or guardians who are the one who colours them and determined how much they stand out among the others.
A simple example is like my sis and I. Both of us are two separate individuals brought up in the same environment by same parents. Both of us behave differently and have different personalities. How can this happen when we have the same parents and was brought up in the same environment? Some of you might think that maybe our parents treat us differently but no they didn’t. So this proves that a child is not just a white piece of cloth but with some pattern on it already before any colour or additional pattern was put on it.
Well actually what i really want to say is although surroundings plays a big role in molding a person, sometimes people are born just to be in a way. It could be a scientific factor or maybe a spiritual factor.
Actually what i really want to write about is me. I feel that my parents should feel lucky that they have a good daughter like me because i feel that i am a good daughter and that they are pleased with me. I am not boasting about myself but just writing about what is in my mind. I want my parents to be proud of my siblings and me and be grateful because God have blessed them with such nice children and not because of the fact that they good parents only. Some parents are not lucky enough to have children like us because no matter how hard they try to teach them and no matter how good are the surroundings, some times things just don’t go as how they were planned.
If next time i were to have children and my children are bad kiddos, I won’t blame myself and God because i believe that i would have tried my best and that some things are fated to be in a way no matter how hard we try to change it.
