The recently memorable phrase my mom said to me was ‘ No lah, you are not thin. OK la you.’ you know i felt very.. very happy.. in fact it was indescribable hahaha. Usually my ma will look at us with a pitiful face and give a sound like stk..stk..stk.. then she will say " aiyo girls, you all so thin la, everyday i only see you eat plain rice only. not nice la so thin. eat more la..’ but i didn’t change my eating habit( i mean i was not eating plain rice, i hate eating plain rice, only that she always miss the part we eat our rice with something) and one day i ask her again but was not hoping much to hear good news from her and want to irritate her if i were still thin. Then she said it!! She said i was OK. i could not believe it. Then i told her that i will eat more fat to be fatter so she said no need. but she said Dee was still thin. But let me tell you something.. Dee is heavier than me. i weigh 45 kg and she weighs 47 kg!! but i am plumer than her, which keeps my mom nagging saying that she is thin but actually not much difference. i pity her. usually daughters will hate their mother telling them to loose weight because they look fat, but do mothers know that by saying this they are putting unnecessary pressure, worries and sadness on their child? although we are in the different case where we are thin and mother telling us to put on weight, it is still the same. UNNECESSARY PRESSURE, WORRIES AND SADNESS. i mean i didn’t lessen my food, i don’t psycho myself not to eat or go on diet, i am not in a state of malnutrition or even get easily sick. I AM HEALTHY only that i am thin. although its a little bit different already but still why ruin the confidence of your child when there is nothing wrong actually? i am not blaming my mom, but why moms act like that and i just don’t agree la. I know some of you would actually say that we are VERY thin but does it matter?